Is Apostle Joshua Selman Dating Sandra After He Called Her ‘My Love’? 5 Things You Need to Know About Lady Sandra Areh

• Apostle Joshua Selman sparked speculation when he called Lady Sandra Areh ‘my love’ at her birthday party.

• Here’s everything to know about the interior designer, ministry worker, and rumored Selman confidante.

On December 9, 2025, Apostle Joshua Selman Nimmak, founder of Eternity Network International (ENI), caused a stir online when he attended the birthday celebration of Lady Sandra Areh and affectionately called her ‘my love’ while she clung to him on her knees.

The moment reignited long-standing speculation about their relationship, with many in the Nigerian Christian community wondering if Sandra is more than a close ministry associate.

Though the duo has never publicly confirmed dating rumors, Sandra has earned the nickname ‘Selwoman,’ with some Christian-focused platforms even calling her Selman’s “wife-to-be” since 2019.

The pair have known each other since their academic days at Ahmadu Bello University in Zaria, Kaduna State, and Sandra has been a loyal supporter and worker in Selman’s ministry over the years.

5 Things to Know About Lady Sandra Areh:

1. Sandra Chinelo Areh is Igbo and hails from Anambra State.
2. She studied Mass Communication at Ahmadu Bello University (ABU), Zaria, graduating in 2013.
3. After her NYSC, Sandra reportedly worked as a personal assistant to a member of the House of Representatives in Abuja.
4. She is currently the creative director at Nels Tiptop Designs, an interior and exterior decoration company.
5. Sandra is widely known as ‘Selwoman’ due to her close and longstanding relationship with Apostle Selman, which spans over a decade.

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The birthday encounter has drawn both admiration and criticism online. While some celebrated the affectionate gesture, others deemed it inappropriate given Selman’s reputation for preaching holiness.

Despite public speculation, the official status of Sandra and Selman’s relationship remains unconfirmed. Meanwhile, concerned observers have warned Sandra to consider the implications of her closeness to the preacher, noting that it has influenced public perception and even potential suitors over the years.