I’ve Been Through 7 Failed Relationships With Different Guys – BBNaija Tolanibaj Shares Experience

In the latest episode of the Bahd And Boujee podcast, former BBNaija housemate Tolanibaj discussed her past relationships alongside co-host Moet Abebe.

VerseNews gathered that she expressed frustration about the scarcity of good men in the current dating scene, referring to those available as “remnants.”

Tolanibaj disclosed having dated seven men, believing each could be her future husband, but they eventually left her.

“I feel like in the dating pool, we are left with remnants. The good ones are married,” Tolanibaj said.

“We hopped on the train too late. I have dated like seven guys and I thought they were the ones…”

During the conversation, actor Daniel Etim-Effiong, also a guest on the podcast, questioned Tolanibaj’s perspective, suggesting that the issue might not solely lie with the seven men she dated but could also involve her.

Additionally, Etim-Effiong shared thoughts on why men might refrain from openly seeking financial help.

He highlighted the historical societal expectation that men are responsible for addressing women’s needs, mentioning that in various Nigerian cultures, it’s considered a norm for men to step in and solve problems affecting women.

“Traditionally, in society, women have been largely men’s responsibility,” the actor said.

“So whenever there is a problem with the woman, men are quick to rise to the occasion and meet that need.

“Whatever culture you come from in Nigeria, it would be taboo to the men when the women in that culture have a problem and the men are not solving it.”